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" I never knew there would be pleasure in pain until then "
- Sanjeev


Fall of  1998;October 5th,it was. One day after my final Exams for the final Semester at College. I had been to her home in Kerala as she was a distant relative, and I had to attend a family function there (her Cousin's daughter's Naming ceremony). I also wanted a break after my exams. By then I had a Job in my hand and it was only a matter of time when I had to go to Chennai. So the holiday was something I needed. The first day I met HER, I felt something good in me. It wasn't love.. no not then, it was some kind of admiration. I stayed in her house for about five days. Most of this time I observed some kind of magic in her. There was nothing artificial about her. She was as she is... simple! I felt more and more attracted to her.. was it love?? maybe.. I still can't be sure if I had already fallen in love by then.

Well, on the last two days of my stay, I along with my sister and her family had been for an outing to "Vazhyachal and Athirapally Water Falls". Unknown to her I kept watching her, her moves, her talk, her temperament... I kept thinking if she is the girl for me... Finally when it came to saying goodbye, it was painful for me and I could somehow see it in her eyes too. Should I have told her then and there??? The next few days was hell for me... I felt like I had lost something, kept thinking that I should have let her know about how I felt... But then it had to wait.. I let my parents know about it and with their consent wrote my first letter to Sree. A week later I did get her reply.... Yes, she was willing to walk with me hand in hand through the rest of our life!

 July 11th 1999, we were engaged and by the last week of August, I had to leave India for my long term training in Germany. It had been a painful but memorable TWO years. I never knew there would be pleasure in pain until then. Yeah, OK telephone bills are a Nightmare, but there were "sweet dreams" too. 

 July14th,2001 Morning! The W-day! About 8:35AM myself and Sree got on to the Podium, paid our respects to the Lord and under a holy oath to be together in life from today and forever, I tied the sacred knot. Later we both went around the temple and placed a lamp as a symbolic gesture of our gratitude to the Lord. 

After two phases of our honeymoon in Mysore and Kerala,on the 1st August we were back in Bangalore and after a wonderful week thereafter, it was time to part, to say bye to each other again. I had to leave for Germany to continue my training.

 7th August, it was painful and tearful.... But like it is said, the world with its cruel boundaries can separate us physically, but we shall remain together in our hearts forever. It is just a matter of time, we shall  be together once again .........forever! There were many many incidents that happened between us which we shall remember, talk about it, laugh about it, for a life time.....

Thank you god for all the goodness you have given me in  my life. You have given me the best parents anyone could ask for, the dearest sister one can have, the most wonderful  cousins and relatives to be with  and the most trustworthy friends to confide in. Now you have given me so much love from my woman that I couldn't ask for more. Today my only prayer to you is to give others too their share of joy happiness and  Peace.

 

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